Leo Tolstoy
Circle of Reading
Translated by Dmitry Fadeyev

June 7

Humility gives you joys that are inaccessible to those who are conceited and proud.

1

Peace among people is a necessary condition for a good life; the main obstacle to peace is our pride; only humility—a readiness to endure humiliation, to be slandered, to be misunderstood—only when a human being is ready for this can he bring peace into his relationship with other people and other people’s relationship among themselves.

2

Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

— Matthew 11:28–30

3

When society condemns and slanders us, rather than getting angry we should examine whether or not their condemnations have any basis.

— Hume

4

If your self-respect is pained at the memory of how in the past you had neglected wisdom, how you did not lead the life of the sages and how you hardly deserve to be called a sage, then do not be troubled about this. If you will not be known as a sage, then all the better. Be satisfied to be able to begin living now, right now, according to the demands of your conscience.

— Marcus Aurelius

5

Humility is the first thing that a human being must learn before he can succeed on the path towards happiness. Haughtiness, imperiousness and vanity must give way to meekness and gentleness. Haughtiness cannot acquire anything because it assumes that it already has everything.

— From “The World’s Advance Thought”

6

Not only does pride defend itself, it also defends a person’s all other sins; because it hates reproach and repels healing, it conceals and justifies sin. The consciousness of sin, which humbles a human being, is more useful than a good deed, which inflates his pride.

— Baxter

7

Be strict with yourself and lenient with others and you will have no enemies.

— Chinese wisdom


Do not be afraid of humiliation; if you can receive it with humility, it will pay off many times over with the spirituals goods that are associated with it.